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What is a non-molestation or restraining order?

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Court orders prohibiting someone from specified behaviour towards another person — and the distinction between them matters, because they arise in different proceedings and are obtained in different ways.

A non-molestation order is made in family proceedings. It prohibits a person from using or threatening violence, harassing, pestering or intimidating an applicant or a relevant child. It is applied for by the person at risk, and can be made without notice in urgent cases — meaning the respondent is not present and is served afterwards, with a return hearing at which they can be heard. Breach is a criminal offence carrying a prison sentence, which is what gives the order teeth.

An occupation order is the related family order regulating who may live in or enter a home, which is more difficult to obtain because it interferes with property rights.

A restraining order is made in criminal proceedings, by the court, at the conclusion of a case. Crucially, it can be imposed even where the defendant was acquitted, if the court considers it necessary to protect a person from harassment — which surprises many people. It is not applied for by the victim in the same way; the prosecution seeks it.

Other protective measures include civil injunctions for harassment, and in some jurisdictions police-issued short-term notices providing immediate protection before a court hearing.

How they are obtained in practice: for family orders, through a solicitor or by applying directly to the family court, with a statement setting out specific incidents with dates. Specificity is what carries an application — general assertions are far weaker than a dated account of particular events.

Evidence that helps: messages, call logs, photographs, medical records, police reference numbers and independent witnesses.

Legal aid may be available for domestic abuse cases where it is not generally available otherwise, subject to evidence requirements.

What to do if one is breached: call the police, since breach of a non-molestation order or restraining order is a criminal matter — not the court in the first instance.

Support organisations can help with applications and safety planning, and are frequently the fastest route to advice.

England and Wales focused. General information, not legal advice.

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