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How does business-to-business selling actually work?

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Through a long, multi-person process in which the decision is rarely made by the person you are talking to — which is why techniques borrowed from consumer selling fail so consistently.

What makes it different:

Multiple decision-makers. A typical purchase involves several people — a user, a budget holder, a technical evaluator, procurement, legal, and frequently security and data protection. Each can say no; only one can say yes, and each has different concerns.

Long cycles, running months for anything substantial, with budget cycles imposing their own timing.

Rational justification required. Even where the decision is emotional, the buyer must justify it to someone else — so your job is partly to arm your internal champion with the argument they will make when you are not in the room.

The real competitor is inaction. Most deals are lost to "we did nothing", not to a rival. Quantifying the cost of the status quo matters more than comparison with competitors.

The stages that actually occur: identifying an organisation with the problem; reaching someone who feels it; qualifying — whether there is a real problem, budget, authority and a timeline; discovery, where you learn more than you pitch; demonstrating fit to their specific situation; building a business case; navigating procurement, legal and security review; and closing.

What works:

Discovery over pitching. Asking what they currently do, what it costs, what they have already tried, and what happens if nothing changes.

Qualifying out early. Time spent on a deal that will never close is the largest cost in sales. "This may not be for you" is a legitimate and efficient thing to say.

Writing things down, since your champion forwards documents, not conversations.

Handling procurement as a process, not an obstacle — security questionnaires, references and insurance evidence are predictable and can be prepared once.

Following up, which is where most small businesses simply stop.

What does not work: pressure tactics, artificial deadlines, feature lists, and pitching to whoever answered the phone.

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